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A NEW PACT OF DEFENSE FOR THE WORLD

Do we have time for war now?

In these dramatic days of our existence, we must ask ourselves if it’s not time for the world leaders to sit down together and evaluate the total situation on earth. We have ONE PLANET, not a planet B, as Al Gore so aptly put it. In other words, there is no reserve land to resort to.

Therefore, we must use all our joint efforts to save the planet. Let’s for a moment skip the question of empathy and compassion with the sufferings of all our victims of war. For many leaders of states such pain and death does not really affect them. Fortunately most of our European heads of states, really feel the despair, shock and tragic loss of lives, by the people of Ukraine.

Kyiv, Ukraine 07.11.2020. Independence Monument on the Maidan Nazalezhnosti in Kyiv, Ukraine, on a sunny summer morning

The hard realities outside the battle ground.

Let us instead consider only the harsh realities, factual and cynical, – which concern our overall existence on earth. Can we really afford to waste precious time waging war in 2022?

Dying Earth Word Death Deviant Art, by FAVPGN.com

Earth’s deadly battle against our way of life.

According to the United Nations Climate Panel, we are well on our way to the 2.7 degree goal of global warming. Already now, at just over a degree of rise, ie 1.1 ° C, we have violent and devastating floods, sea level rise, more powerful and considerably more devastating storms and hurricanes than before.

We have intense heat waves, increasing forest fires, and extreme weather, both in cold waves and heat waves. (NASA Goddard Institute for Space Studies. By Sofie Bates, NASA’s Earth Science News Team, with Michael Carlowicz.)

Helpers check for victims in flooded cars on a road in Erftstadt, Germany, Saturday, July 17, 2021. Due to strong rainfall, the small Erft river went over its banks, causing massive damage. (AP Photo/Michael Probst)

California, Australia, Germany and several other areas were hit extremely hard by extreme weather last year. There will only be more such disasters in the future anyway.

What kind of scenarios should our war be waged against now.

Dying Earth, by Fine Art America

I had a (naive) dream.

In a 2017 article, in which I described man’s nocturnal dream activity, I quoted from one of my dreams, where I on a guided tourist visit in the Kremlin, happened to end up at a summit with Putin, Trump, Medvedev and Lavrov. Having lost my group I suddenly was confronted by security guards and shortly after President Putin questioning my presence at this extremely important summit between heads of state.

I said I represented his small neighboring country Norway, and we had a suggestion for Russia with huge positive economic and human consequences. The plan was to include Russia into the NATO alliance, to ensure mutual peace, and to save much-needed money for welfare, public goods and the fight against poverty.

Both Putin and Trump completely agreed with this naive dream, but Putin insisted that the defense pact should be called NARTO. In the dream, I forgot China on the move, and how important it is for China not to lose Russia as an ally. So in the dream, I should definitely have included China in the defense alliance and called it NARCTO (North Atlantic, Russian and Chinese Treaty Organization.) Ref. My meeting with Vladimir Putin and Donald Trump in the Kremlin, Moscow.

(220204) — BEIJING, Feb. 4, 2022 (Xinhua) — Chinese President Xi Jinping holds talks with Russian President Vladimir Putin at the Diaoyutai State Guesthouse in Beijing, capital of China, Feb. 4, 2022. (Xinhua/Li Tao)

Every individual with any brain intact….

Every sensible person understands that we can not continue along with the typical shooting, bombing and killing each other to capture land we feel entitled to occupy and annex, a way of imperialism the east and the west have ravaged for the last centuries.

We need a completely different defense for the present and the future. A green, – but not military-green defense against the globe’s desperate way of defending itself, when it feels threatened as it is now. It’s the war on climate-damaging actions and emissions that we must fight together. The war against our wanting for more and more material goods, polluting worldwide travels, and not only one car, but several. Not to mention all the plastic pollution we constantly surround ourselves with, which dissolves into micro plastics everywhere.

The green revolution, by Euronews

The earth as a schoolyard.

Had the earth been a schoolyard with 700 students and 7 of them were very outspoken and violent, would we never let the seven destroyers be ravaged by the remaining 700 students. Would we, knowing too well that the remaining 693 students were terrorized everyday and experienced the schooldays like hell, and the schoolyard rammed.

Aggression in the schoolyard, by Horizonte Magasin

It’s not that simple in international politics! Here the global balance of power and the economy are in complicated ways woven into various agreements and alliances. So if someone reacts to an aggressor, and at the same time has nuclear weapons, it can be extremely difficult to stop the behavior, with a common condemnation and joint action against the abuser, We see this clearly in the UN Security Council today.

Today, nobody really wins a war.

Several political scientists believe that war is largely a solid loss project for those involved. Russian human rights veteran Svetlana Gannusjkina believes that no one wins a war, least of all the attacker. (Newspaper Klassekampen 15.3 2022)

What is believed to be a tragedy?

She also thinks it says a lot about a certain leader, whose name she never mentions, that he means the greatest tragedy that happened in the last century was the dissolution of the Soviet Union. – Then World War I, and World War II, and the bombing of Hiroshima and Nagasaki, was no tragedy, she wonders. For our part, we can add to the 90 million soldiers, children, women and men who have died in war since 1939.

Global economy and global climate.

Heads of state around the world are well aware of the global economy and trade knowing no borders anymore. The same goes for the climate and our global weather systems. These two worldwide systems, climate and economy are closely intertwined. We must use this knowledge for what its worth.

Now we need a defense pact to be formed between all the major countries of the North and South, East and West. This united pact or treaty is the only way to protect us from deadly attacks from our planet’s climate and weather systems. The planet is not ours, as an object or thing that we own, and can ravage or exploit as it suits us.

No, on the contrary! We are fortunate enough to live here on earth and enjoy its generosity with us. That is something we should show our gratitude for, through our ability to live in peace with it.

The Plitvice Lakes National Park .Croatia

The earth has started waging war against us, in our lack of respect for its ecosystems.

In recent years, however, we have seen that the earth’s patience with us is at a breaking point. Then it is said by heads of state and leading economists, that we can not afford to take care of the earth by pursuing environmental protection. The reality is that we cannot afford not to.

“TOWARDS A NEW WORLD PACT”

We should not let a few grumpy, old men who for some reason feel offended by something in the past, rule the present world for the rest of us.

Nor should we let the military-industrial political complex in the world run errands for conflict, in order to achieve political and economic gain.

The bullies, and the most dangerous of us.

Most men are actually peaceful. Only 6% of the world’s male population harass, torments, beats and rapes women. This is more than enough unfortunately. Some very few are apt to kill.

The most dangerous of us, however, never seek help for their traumas. They most often hide their pain from a tragic background. Instead they try to compensate their deeper inferiority complex by seeking power in a family setting, big business or in a political organization, always heading for the top to get the ultimate and grandiose feeling of themselves.

Fortunately there are quite many nice and friendly leaders as well. This total majority of constructive, friendly men, but also women, counts billions.

To all world leaders and the rest of us who want to contribute to peace:

Stop war against each other! Let’s unite in a struggle for peace with the earth we live on. We must not stir it up any more. If we do, it will fight back in an environmental war against us that will kill millions of people, create huge refugee flows and change the livelihoods of most people.

Only a few had anticipated the war against Ukraine.

Just a few people in the world from the international surveillance service and their heads of state thought that Russia would go to war against Ukraine. Even fewer thought that war would turn out to be that brutal.

A few of the world’s leaders still do not believe in man-made climate problems. I hope “The World’s Pact Of Defense” can become a reality, and gradually replace the military alliances. “The World’s Pact Of Defense”(TWPOD) must gather all heads of state together with the others, and talk about different climate scenarios on which, among other things, the IPCC — Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change, has validated data and projections.

Cost and benefit.

Through their work it must be taken into account what costs in the short and long term a green shift entails, and how to distribute the bill among the countries. The calculation must also be set up against what the environmental disasters will cost us.

Then it is important to set the above accounts against what you can save on massive military expenses, through mutual disarmament. Spending vast budgets om military armament based on the old paradigm, – to defend humanity against it’s aggression towards itself, – is so obsolete.

In the aftermath of the present war.

When Kremlins war against Ukraine is over, of course we must all in some way or another, help rebuilding their country and mending their deep wounds.

Then it’s time to reassess what all the world’s nations stand up against: The necessity to defend the human race against destroying itself through the earth’s war against us.

This is another kind of war, a climatic war that the earth must wage on us to take care of and balance its ecosystems. This is and will be our pending battle for survival. We can no longer fight each other. It’s stupid, old-fashioned and should belong to the unenlightened past.

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At least he stays inside his own territory, photo Wildlife

THE CURSE BY BEING FAMOUS

The Dream.

Most people have dreamed of becoming famous once or several times in their lives, whether as an artist, pop singer, inventor, head of state, or royal. When 10–12-year-old youths are asked, most of them will want this and choose fame over well-paid work.

Julianne Moore posed with her star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. Photo Mark Davies
BTS. Apparently still content and happy with their huge worldwide success. Photo Big Hits

The Reality:

I have seen the inside of the lives of many people of different ages and genders. Through my work, I have met, and still meet both children, teenagers, and adults of different ages, as well as old people. And I daresay, I have seen THE BACKSIDE OF THE FACE OF FAME.

– The feeling of losing ones’s freedom completely. What the celebrities themselves say:

(If you are tired of celebrities saying this or that about themselves, their calamities, ups-and-downs, or about the world, just scroll down to Part 2. or the case of The Beatles, and the chapter about The psychology of fame and the seven stages they usually encounter and have to solve, if they don’t kill themselves or jump off the rollercoaster of fame long before that.)

Incarcerated or hunted down: What is it like not being able to move outside your home, or stick your head out the window without being chased by the celebrity press, or observed and photographed? Even in your own garden or terrace, you are not allowed to be at peace.

 Lady Gaga said: As soon as I leave my house, I lose my freedom and belongs “to everyone else.”

photo uploaded from The People

The Burden of fame: Harrison Ford called “fame and the loss of privacy comes with it, as a burden.”

photo uploaded from the net.

 Anne Hathaway said: “fame fucked me up for a really long time.”

Anne Hathaway, photo Hello Magazine

The Price: George Cloney told Esquire UK, 2014, that fame always has its price: “The truth is you run as fast as you can towards it because it’s everything you want. Not just the fame, but what it represents, meaning work, meaning opportunity. And then you get there and it’s shocking how immediately you become enveloped in this world that is incredibly restricting. “ It is known that Clooney after a back injury during the recording of “Syriana” in 2005, considered taking his own life due to the pain.

George Clooney, photo, The Hollywood reporter.

A fugitive on the run: Johnny Depp: Would not like to seem unthankful but told “Today “in 2014, “It’s a little bit like living like a fugitive. Everything has to be some sort of strategy. To get you into the hotel, to get you out of the hotel, to get you into the restaurant, to get you out of the restaurant.”

Photo Classic FM

Fame a game of life and death:

Amanda Seyfried: The anxiety and panic associated with fame are perceived by many as a dilemma of life and death. Actress Amanda Seyfried tells “Nettavisen Livsstil”(Lifestyle) that: Anxiety and panic attacks caused by fame feels like life or death ”

Amanda Seyfried foto NTB
Kristen Stewart called fame “the worst thing in the world.”
Kristen Stewart, foto captured from BL

Happy of having had a life before fame: Robert Pattinson: Still saying what he said to GQ in 2013: “It’s strange, you don’t have a normal life anymore. You spend much time trying to fight it, but in the end, you find another way to live.” He then added, “People don’t realize how lonely you are. In any case, I feel fortunate because success didn’t reach me very young, at least, I had the opportunity to have a life before.”

Robert Pattinson, photo by VG.no

– Stalking stars and fame.

Not a few celebrities experience stalking, ie certain people who seem threatening and who follow them wherever they are. Very many also experience death threats and must have bodyguards around the clock.

Halle Berry said she was moving to France because she was receiving death threats from a man who claimed he was going to slit her throat.

BEVERLY HILLS, CAL – FEBRUARY 19: Halle Berry attends The 21st CDGA (Costume Designers Guild Awards) at The Beverly Hilton Hotel on February 19, 2019, in Beverly Hills, California. (Photo by Amy Sussman/Getty Images for CDGA)

Death Threats: Kim Kardashian received death threats like: “I’ll pray you will die, Kim,” “Kill yourself,” and “Die in HELL!” are just a few of the threatening messages that she was bombarded with.

Kim Kardashian. photo Alberto E. Rodriguez

Selena Gomez received several death threats from rabid fans of Justin Bieber when she was dating him.

Selena Gomez, photo capt, from Store Norske Leksikon

Taylor Swift received Twitter death threats from One Direction fans who thought the singer dissed her ex-boyfriend, Harry Styles, during the Grammy Award. “Go die you have messed with the wrong fandom !!! Hell is yours !!” and “TAYLOR SWIFT YOU DID NOT JUST MOCK HARRY STYLES GO DIE YOU WORTHLESS HOW,” are just a few examples of the tweets she received

Taylor Swift, Photo: Anthony Harvey/Getty Images

Barack Obama has had over 10 credible assassination threats made against him since he won the 2008 Presidential election.

President Barack Obama and family, photo Presidential Library

Michael Jackson experienced many threats. In just a year 2004, most of them came from a Canadian man that was given one-year probation for emailing death threats to him. Of course, Michael Jackson was privileged enough to buy his own little world at “Neverland” that was a refuge from the world but at the same time a prison.

Michael Jackson and the almost adopted family of Omer Bhatti, Photo Aftenposten.no

Part 2.

Lifted up by millions of fans and supporters.

The Rolling Stones, photo from Morrison Hotel Gallery, Fine Art Music Photography.

The Rolling Stones were worldwide known for their brilliant pop and rock music, not least their many stunts challenging traditional roles and conduct. (Psychological Universe does not know so much about their troubles with fame)

– Gratitude to the fans:

EXO’s New 2017 Stadium in Seoul is huge with approximately 80.000 people gathered. photo by koreaboo

Humility, thankfulness, and modesty: Many pop stars and celebrities are very thankful to their herds of fans. Meeting them at concerts and shows creates most often a magic and spectacular atmosphere of admiration, joy, happiness, and a feeling of togetherness. My impression is that especially Korean k-pop groups and bands are enormously thankful for their “army of fans”.

BTS at Rose Bowl Stadium LA California US. (Big Hit Entertainment)

With the ultramodern mega arenas and stadiums, there can be around 80.000 fans lightning up the seats and grandstand with thousands of flashlights waving up to the platform where the bands play and dance. But among millions of supportive and positive fans, there are lots of fanatic and crazy people that represent a permanent threat to the solo artists or members of a big band. Here the murder of John Lennon is an extreme and tragic example. So let’s take a look at the case of the Beatles.

The Beatles and the downside of fame.

The Beatles were world-famous already in 1964, according to “The Historian and The Beatles”,- Reviews of Beatle Biography” (E. T. Weber 2019). Here Weber describes how these four English Liverpool guys, very early had a goal to get world-famous. They wanted according to this review to be “the very top of the world’s pop”, “a position” that inherently confers global fame.”

The Beatles, photo capt. from Review of Beatle Biography

 – Wanting their faces disfigured.

 How did the Beatles’ lives evolve because of their musical and lyrical creativity and success?

Reality proved swiftly and sharply to be double-edged: Weber cites Andrew Loog Oldham witnessing Lennon and McCartney fantasizing about being involved in an automobile accident that would disfigure them so utterly it would render them unrecognizable.

In that respect, it’s sufficient to remind ourselves of what happened to Paul Walker in 2013.

American Hollywood actor Paul Walker in Fast and Furious. photo fro wegothiscovered.com

Paul Walker‘s face was totally unrecognizable after his fatal accident in his red Porsche on 30 November 2013, driven by a friend. A great fan of him showed me a picture of his face taken just after his death. The photo has now been removed from all platforms I think because it was terrifying just to look at it. There’s no reason to believe, to my knowledge, that this was a suicide attempt by any of them. Instead, it was young men’s typical boyish addiction to sports cars and over speed. And perhaps a world-famous movie star’s attempt to escape with a friend from photographers or paparazzi. I don’t know.

Family and friends. Back to the Beatles.

“Ringo Starr recounts that fame had changed even familial relations (op cit.).We certainly know that it affects not only the relation to parents, but also to your wife/husband, children, and friends. Sometimes, as Ringo Starr recalled, his extended family could react abnormally over a small spill of tea that normally would have been brushed off.

George Harrison said according to this historian of popular music, that they had sacrificed their nervous systems. Unlike the British Royal Family or other royals, they were not already from birth trained to cope with fame’s difficulties; The Beatles were thrust into the fire with very little preparation.” (George Martin op cit.) They had a kind of protective circle around them, but huge problems arose that their manager Brian Epstein had not foreseen.

How does fame impact people psychologically?

The Journal of Phenomenological Psychology revealed some interesting facts about fame after the two researchers Donna Rockwell and David C. Giles had interviewed rock and pop stars, television celebrities, actors, athletes, and musicians. (In: “The Beatles and the phenomenology of fame”.) They found that many of its consequences were potentially damaging to both the individual’s self-worth and genuine, healthy, interpersonal relationships.

7 TYPICAL STAGES OF AN INDIVIDUAL’S EMOTI0NAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL RESPONSE TO FAME: (0P CIT.)

Stage 1. Elation:

Great elation and joy, photo Healthline

Having just achieved fame, the individual is showered with attention and adoration. Every possible door is open to them, and the celebrities recount experiencing personal feelings of value and worth.

Stage 2. Overwhelmed:

Overwhelmed, photo The Conversation

Some while after the great breakthrough the individuals begin to describe fame as similar to a tornado; a force out of their control for which they are unprepared and unsure with how to cope.

Stage 3. Resentment:

The “animal in a cage” stage is when the individual begins to resent their fans and the intrusions caused by fame. Many movie stars and pop stars feel imprisoned by their fame in some way.

Resentment, photo Bradford Health Studies

Stage 4. Addiction:

Blogger and influencer’s addiction to the continuous caption of followers and fame. Photo fameaddict.com

Despite their ambivalence to fame, the individual knows they are also addicted to it. They despise its intrusions but also loathe themselves for still craving fame. According to the study, this stage can be particularly destructive, because this is an addiction that can only be satisfied by the participation of other people or fans. That is the only way for the individual to get their fix.

Stage 5. Splitting:

The famous artist often “choose” to split off their personality in two halves, to differentiate between their true self and the public image that is created by their producers, and their fans, and often even by themselves, for the sake of popularity.(my text) to a Stock photo.

Realizing that your famous self is not your genuine self — hence the creation, by some of the split personas: one for the public, one for their private family and friends. Also includes the realization that fans don’t know the real individual, and that their adoration is, therefore, questionable, leading the individual to question their personal value and worth.

Stage 6. Loneliness and Depression:

Loneliness and periods of depression are not seldom by persons worshipped worldwide. photo: Indian Express

Individuals can lose lifelong friends due to the distance caused by fame, leaving them increasingly aware that they are isolated, having lost friends who knew the “real” them. The loneliness can be intensified by the belief, by others, that those who are famous have no right to be lonely or depressed.

Stage 7. Wishing for Something Else:

In this photo released by the United Nations, K-Pop band BTS speaks during a meeting focused on youth issues at the United Nations in New York on September 24, 2018. K-Pop sensation BTS brought their star power to the United Nations, telling the world’s youth to listen to their inner voice, accept and love themselves genuinely, even when having done many mistakes, and resist pressure to conform. / AFP PHOTO / Mark GARTEN

This is a stage in which the individual becomes involved in investing in causes they regard as authentic, while still longing for genuine, caring relationships with friends and/or family.

The most important antidote to the curse of fame.

Self-love and the ability to speak for oneself:

Quite coincidentally, BTS, and Psychological Universe have been been matched and co-working worldwide with the main message on this international website. I am therefore very thankful for their important contribution to convey these values to the younger generation. This is a generation that instead of “dull” written pages of info, prefer music and YouTube videos from their idols, to really understand the importance of a life saving message.

Front page from psychological Universe’s article: “Self-love,- sickening or healthy.” fotos by MBC HD movies .com (Self-love, – sickening or healthy?)

The message itself is divided into three areas.

1. First, it is about being able to give oneself unconditional love and consideration, regardless of mistakes and shortcomings.

2. Secondly, it’s about being able to stand up for oneself, and daring to say what you feel and need in order to have a good life. (This BTS brought with them in their speech to the UN in September 2018, and even in their fight for their rights to BIG HITS entertainment.)

We all know these days, the struggle outside and inside of the Court that Britney Spears has had, to be given the right to speak and act on behalf of herself.

To have a cause bigger than showbiz and career:

Global environmental protection:

3. Last but not least, the third message of the Psychological Universe is about being able to take care of what we all come from and depend on – namely nature and the environment on earth. That message also was BTS’s main content of their speech this September, when they, together with Korean President Moon Jae-in, were invited to the UN General Assembly to speak on the importance of global environmental protection. (To get the attention of their later speech among the younger generation, they worked for 14 hours in the assembly hall to make this video.) https://youtu.be/9SmQOZWNyWE

The interview with BTS and UN’s 2. Secretary together with President Moon Jae-in: https://youtu.be/wAXcMD5dOBA (unfortunately because of jet-lag, dry air during the long flight to N.Y. and extremely hard work in the UN Hall of assembly to make the dance video without playback, their voices are not as perfect as usual.)

The significance of self-esteem:

Psychologically, the first thing – self-love, is the key to being able to feel good, and give oneself the care and attention needed. As BTS has understood, this is not about egocentrism or egoism. On the contrary, this is about a deep respect for who you are, before you achieve anything externally. If you are in contact with this mere “existence of yourself in the world”, you’ll also be able to maintain self-respect during days when you don’t achieve well, and even make mistakes.

This is even a prerequisite for managing the genuine love and care for others. At the same time it is the best way to avoid depression and suicidal thoughts, witch is something I work intensely with every day together with “my colleagues in life’s difficult balancing act.”

Such work takes time, it is a long process, and it is not enough to have a speech in the UN about it, or in the UNICEF. But it means a lot that the world’s most popular band from Korea, says this to its millions of young followers around the world. Followers who like many others of us struggle with their self-esteem.

The important difference between self-confidence and self-esteem

Younger people may not always have the same struggle with self-confidence. Self-confidence is about how good and successful you are. But self-esteem, the deeper sense of human dignity is not about performance, but about having value by just being YOU in the universe.

Has BTS managed their international fame?

We will later see if BTS has managed to cope with the transitions between the seven stages in the price of fame, mentioned above. 

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